Marrying Someone I No Love - EPP ME

I live in Arizona,about 2 years ago my mum's friend introduced me to a guy in naija. I pointed out that the relationship should be for friendship only, I also made it clear say to bros say na only friendship I want. Toh, the friendship began, na so bro go dey message me everyday, call nko...I sha tell am again say no be for here hin go find nwunye (wife).

Any ways, I came out of a relationship and bros was still here but as friend because again he dey naija. Bros still stylishly ask me for a relationship, wey i make am clear say e no interest me. 

Last yr sha, bros came to yankee and we met for the first time. Again, he said he wan marry me...because of family pressure to marry, i said yes.

Now, my problem is I dont find bros attractive at all, i no see much prospective in him but his personality dey ok and he seems to love me. E be like say he know i no like am like that but he sha wan force am make e gel. IF i provoke to point wey I feel say e go let go, bros go do strong head and come back as sweet as ever. 

I dont see him my oga at the top but I'm confused if say i go let something good go or bros just wan use me enter canada to better himself. As i know hin leg no balance well for naija but he dey make ends meet. I think say he no say I no like because na him to force make i call am pet names, he dont complain say i no dey call etc. Thing dey clear say i no dey show much love interest. 

I no fit discuss with mama because her and my papa like the guy. I dont like bros more than friend and definitley dont see him adding any real value to my life besides to say I have husband. 

Make una epppp me , I dont dey loose my mind. Family wan choose date for December when they go niaja in feb. I still fit savour the situation before mid of feb. 


Wetin una think about the situation? Shey the love fit grow, bros wan use me for one chance enter yankee or make i kuku drop it and move on.